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Co-parenting for Everyone: Context Definition Co-parenting
K.C. Wilson
But how can it work?Most people accept that children are better off with both parents actively in their life. But when you say "shared parenting" for divorce arrangements, many say, "How can it work? Is it practical?"
That question alone reveals an assumptions that both parents must always agree on everything to raise a child. Does any couple? Ever? Whether happily married or not? Why require outside of marriage what never happens in it? Saying two parents is only for the highly cooperative is like saying the protection of the police is only for the rich. Why should children of the poor be punished?
What matters most to any parent when anyone else takes care of their child is information. What went on? What happened? What did he or she react to and how? Did he have a nap, for how long? Did he like spinach? Have you already seen Lion King?
Information exchange is essential. As to decisions, who cares which are made so long as they are made by one of the equally loving parents. Decisions are grounds for conflict. That's all that has to be removed. Give each parent their own set. The methods and formulas that advocate joint-this and shared-that can only be counter-productive.
Not this approach. Divorce is about separation, NOT new forms of enmeshment. See the TEN STEPS to a Context Definition Co-parenting Plan.
Co-parenting for Everyone does not stop with only that. Many issues can come up in divorce or any co-parenting arrangement. This provides profound, helpful advice on all major issues of divorce. Age- and temperament-appropriate schedules, infant overnights, moving away, money, the three co-parenting nightmares. Take a look a the Table of Contents for everything it covers. It faces them directly. Nothing gets hedged. You'll find help for almost anything you face.
Yes, it can be done. Go ahead and hate him / her. You can eliminate the other from your personal life, and still keep your child's family completely intact. You can eat your cake and have it too. All that's required is attention to the right things (your own job), not the wrong ones (someone else's).
Would you like to know how to end your marriage and eliminate that jerk / bitch without destroying the best of it as far as your children are concerned? Would you like to see how even a married couple who get along just fine can clarify and simplify their child care? If never married, do you both still want to assure that child the best of what a couple can without someone forced needlessly in your personal life that you never intend to marry?
Would you like to see how joint custody CAN be made the near universal rule? Would you like to do it yourself and be an example?
Join the revolution. Get the ultimate parenting plan method that recognizes boundaries and always keeps the child's family intact.
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